Nellie passed in May of 1947 which was 12 months before I was born. I never knew her. It is well-known in our family that she took on the task of raising R.S.’s children after Grace’s death in 1911. Grace’s death was described as “things were never the same.”
My dad, Keith, really didn’t talk about her much although she was probably the only mother that he remembered. Grace Barclay McDonald, his real mother, had died in December of 1911 when he was only 18 months old. Eddie, his sister mentioned she died right at Christmas. I really had not realized that because Eddie would celebrate that holiday along with the others.
I felt I knew more about the McD’ side than I did my Mother’s side. Dad didn’t talk specifics but I did know some family history. Technically my family was a what his sister, Miriam, would often repeat, “dour Scotsmen.”
The Caledonian Mercury has a posting on the meaning of the word “dour.” http://caledonianmercury.com/2012/04/18/useful-scots-word-dour/0032435
The picture above is one of my favorites of Nellie. The dress is rather fancy so maybe this was some special day? The one below has her holding another cat with different markings. She seemed to prefer wearing dresses even when she worked. This is the one connection with her that I find, our love of cats.
Nellie is sort of an enigma to me regarding her personality. She was held in esteem by her niece, Miriam. Miriam said that Nellie gave her whole life to her and her siblings after Grace’s death. She never married, nor had children of her own.
By 1920 she is with R.S. (Ronald)., her brother and his children, in Cheney, Washington. About 1925 she would follow her brother to Spokane so that Keith, my dad, could go to Gonzaga High School and Eddie could go to nursing school. The move to Yakima was to take place about 1937 and it would be her final migration. Nellie and Ronald where aging by then so they followed Miriam to Yakima were Miriam took up teaching. Nellie would remain in Yakima for the rest of her life.
Nellie will be mentioned in future posts and pictures, I just felt it was important to focus in on her because she became the “mother” to my dad, Keith.
In studying the photos in my Dad’s collection and his sister Vivian’s, I see a woman, Nellie, who wasn’t afraid of work, who was determined, was probably religious, was friendly to others, loved cats, read the newspaper, joined her family in many picnics and fun things. Even though they didn’t talk about her much, she is featured in many many photographs by herself and with the family.
The photo above is another one of Nellie that I like. She looks a little impatient but I love the coat and the hat. She was probably very neat and tidy no matter what she was doing.
It was Nellie who wrote the original family history charts in 1932 followed by Miriam, her niece redoing them. Here are the post dates and titles that feature Nellie’s charts. They are what I used to try to find my family in Quebec. Go to the Archives on the right of this blog and find the dates that fit.
July 21, 2011 – Nellie’s Charts – Her Mother Mary McDonell’s Family.
June 17, 2011 – Nellie’s Charts – Her Father Archive McDonell’s Family
Here she is in a lovely white dress with a hat.
We have seen that she liked cats but here she is seated next to a dog:
This next photograph is very puzzling. I do not know the lady on the left. Nellie and the lady’s dress is of the same print material, although the style is different. I am assuming Nellie must have belonged to a club perhaps associated with the church? There is another photo with Nellie in the same dress, but I do not recognize the people and they are dressed very fancy. I love the hat with the flowers. Nellie is on the right reaching over to adjust a tea-pot?
Nellie is in the same outfit in this photograph and a man I do not recognize is on the right. It was definitely some special gathering. The location is probably somewhere near Mt. Rainier.
Updated: March 15, 2013: A comment was made about the photos and the mountain not being correct and so I examined the printed coffee can words and sure enough I had this photo reversed in the orientation. My Rainier mountain family expert pointed it out to me and I am glad to get this fixed. It is very easy to get a photo out of orientation when you do not know the subject matter. So I do try to look for letters or something in the photo to help. I missed this one.
The next photo has Nellie holding something in her hand. If you zoom in you find a cigarette in a holder? She smoked cigarettes? I do love the clothesline however which is very tidy. The lady peeking out from behind is unknown to me. (To enlarge the photo, click on it and then use your back button to return to this blog or close a tab.)
Here brother and sister, R.S. (Ronald) and Nellie, work the wood pile:
A little over the fence gossip. I think this photo is wonderful.